Saturday, September 11, 2010




Rommel's rule

Some time ago, my very wise bonvivant friend Rommel taught me a simple rule. I have been applying it, and have found it to be incredibly useful. Here it is:

If you have to say something to someone that you think will agitate them or hurt their feelings, do NOT say it in email or a text message. Speak to them on the phone or say it in person.


Rommel, being the eminently practical guy that he is, didn't speculate about why this was so. So I'll step up. First of all, there is the obvious fact that you don't have the option of using vocal inflection to soften the blow when you are writing. There is also the permanence of writing: someone once described writing as "words that stay", and this makes it harder for the hearer of the bad news to remember that the words are only your opinion, not immutable fact. But finally, there is the fact that when you give bad news or criticism in person or on the phone, you are PRESENT to the impact of your words in a way that you are not when you have expressed yourself in writing. In that way, you can take more responsibility for them. When you are present when speaking critically, you are vulnerable to the reaction from the other person, which is, of course, the danger, but your willingness to be present in this way can go a long way toward reminding the other person that you speak as a well-wisher or a friend, someone who is in the trenches with them in whatever they are attempting to do, and not a distant, evaluating onlooker.

I've been trying to practice it, and I have found that when I do, I like the results that I get. So I wanted to pass it on.

Thursday, September 09, 2010




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Wednesday, September 08, 2010




end-of-the-cycle thoughts

My class cycles in both cities ended last week. Since then, some thoughts have been rattling around in my head that I thought were worth getting out.

I had been teaching for three or four years before I figured out that it was a good idea to have students "warm up" their scenes on Friends and Family Night, that is, do them once for me alone, before the guests arrived. I found that it made a huge difference for people to be able to walk through the scene once, say their lines, and remember where the furniture was. I would give some encouragement and a tiny piece of feedback, to give them a little challenge for the final presentation and keep them on their toes.

This past cycle, doing the warm-up round in both cities, I noticed that the note that I seemed to need to give time and again was "remember to connect to the need". It's a little ironic, since the whole course is about the need and how everything emanates from that, that THAT was the thing that students would forget to bring on stage with them, but there it is. In most cases, once I reminded them, they brought it the next time. But I found myself thinking about the fact that so often that was what they initially left behind.

I suppose nerves is part of it. And then there is the damned complexity of the scene. The practical complexity, such as costumes, setup, props, etc. And also the complexity of the unfolding give-and-take with the partner. The actor can get fixated on all of this complexity, and forget to see the proverbial forest for the trees. The irony is that if the need has been uncovered and rehearsal has been used well, then the need acts as an organizer of all of this complexity, if the actor just remembers to focus on it and to allow it to guide them. This is what Stanislavsky refers to as the "channel" of the scene. If the actor can allow herself to be guided by the channel, the rest will mostly take care of itself.

Tuesday, September 07, 2010




rockstar set designer Erik Flatmo joins Uranium Madhouse

California audiences know Erik Flatmo from his work at theaters like Southcoast Rep, ACT, Berkeley Repertory Theater and the California Shakespeare Festival. He is a faculty member in the theater department at Stanford University, and is an alumnus of the world-renowned design program at the Yale School of Drama. I am very pleased to announce that Erik has elected to become a member of Uranium Madhouse, the new theater company I am starting in Los Angeles. Welcome Erik!

Monday, September 06, 2010




Friends and Family Night-- SoCal and NorCal

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